How To Attract Your Goddess’ Attention!!!( Worth Reading)
Posted on August 16 2018
The devil is in the details and the details decide the whole.
First of all, I think you need to reflect yourself a little first. And ask yourself following questions:
- Is dressing well important? Is dressing well crucial?
- How much do you care about other people’s looks?
- Do you genuinely like great looking clothes or are they good in quality in your eyes?
Some may say “Yes”, and some may say “No”.
That’s normal. Different people have different focus, right?
Some researches showed that dressing well is important for some people and less important for other.
Here, I just want to share two stories which I recently read on Quora with you and take a look at what dressing well can do for you.
A few years ago, after going through three rounds of interview (including a video meeting), only 2 men entered the shortlist for the final senior management role.
The first candidate went to the presentation with a simple black cabin trolley bag, a black ballistic nylon brief case, a vintage watch, a tailored navy blue suit, a business shirt, a tie and a pair of polished black dress shoes.
The second candidate went with a multi-coloured cute cabin trolley bag, a laptop backpack, a simple watch strapped over the sleeve of his windbreaker. What’s more, he wear No suit.
At this point in the story, I think you can guess the result.
Right. The first man got the job.
Their presentations might have made some similarities, but the dressing was entirely different.
A man used to think it was unimportant to dress well. He said that “ Who cares what I wear, it’s my character that counts, right? ”
But when he started dressing well, could you guess what happened?
He immediately started to notice that people treated him better. When he has been well-dressed, he got the free upgrades on flights.
Dressing well made him respect by others. What’s more, people smiled at him more and more, and they took him more seriously.
He just did some extra effort to his appearance, and then it won him a sense of trust. He subconsciously felt better about himself. Feeling better about himself, in turn, made him put more effort on what he did and he tried to perform better under kinds of situations. It was a good chain reaction, right?
Above the two stories both show us the importance of dressing well. That not means you need to buy lots of expensive garments, it just tell you dress neatly will bring you more opportunities.
“Dressing well” still remains under perplexity. What we can do is always to dress to the occasions.
We can dress according to our personality, according to our choice of styles.
We need always to justify our intentions, no matter the seek of attention or a vibrant look, or just to keep simple & comfortable with less noticeable.
Before you go out and dressed, here are some things you need to notice:
- Make sure your clothes are clean, ironed, matching and tailored.
Instead of dressing formally, please attempt to dress a bit nicer than expected.
- Bathe, groom yourself, put on a little makeup or comb your hair with a little styling gel.
You just need to notice how it positively effects on everyone involved.
Although we cannot define what dressing well can actually be, dress - personality mismatch, and dress-comfort mismatch is always a big disaster.